Anxiety & Burnout Therapy in New York

Anxiety can make it feel like you’re constantly bracing for what’s next — and burnout is often the cost of staying “on” for too long. At My AP Therapy, we help adults who look like they’re managing on the outside but feel exhausted, overwhelmed, or disconnected on the inside. Together, we’ll slow things down and address anxiety at its roots so calm, balance, and clarity become sustainable — not something you have to earn.

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Does Your Anxiety Ever Show Up Like This?

Your mind won’t switch off — replaying every conversation, worrying about the next project, second-guessing every decision.

  • You smile through exhaustion, praised for your performance but quietly wondering how long you can keep it up.

  • Rest feels like guilt. Productivity feels like survival.

  • You’ve checked all the boxes — the career, the discipline, the image — but it still doesn’t feel like enough.

Inside, you’re running on empty.

Let’s change that.

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You’ve learned how to function through anxiety — staying busy, staying “fine,” staying in control.
But managing isn’t the same as healing.

Burnout often happens when anxiety goes unaddressed for too long. Your mind stays alert, your nervous system never fully powers down, and eventually your body carries the cost. At My AP Therapy, we help clients move beyond surface-level coping by addressing the underlying patterns driving anxiety, chronic stress, and exhaustion — so relief actually lasts.

Different Ways Anxiety & Burnout Can Show Up


Anxiety doesn’t look the same for everyone. Here are some of the most common ways our clients describe what they’re feeling — maybe you’ll recognize yourself in some of these, too:

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Performance Anxiety & Perfectionism

You hold yourself to impossible standards — at work, in relationships, even in healing. You want to relax but can’t stop analyzing or trying to “get it right.” We’ll help you find calm that isn’t tied to achievement, so rest and success can finally coexist.

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Social Anxiety

Even when you want to connect, your mind starts scanning for judgment or rejection. Our therapists help you understand the protective parts beneath that fear and learn ways to feel safe in your own skin, even around others.

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Work Stress & Burnout

You’re always “on,” juggling deadlines and expectations until your nervous system feels stuck in overdrive. Together, we’ll build emotional and body-based tools to regulate stress, set healthy boundaries, and recover from burnout without losing your ambition.

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Relationship Anxiety

You replay conversations, fear rejection, or feel like you need to prove your worth to stay connected. We’ll help you understand where those patterns come from and practice showing up authentically — confident, grounded, and connected.

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Chronic Overwhelm & Emotional Exhaustion

You’re outwardly successful — but inside, your thoughts never slow down. Together, we’ll explore what your anxiety is protecting you from and create strategies that help you live with more presence and ease.


Our Approach to Anxiety

We believe therapy should feel human — grounded, collaborative, and real.
Our work goes beyond symptom management; it’s about helping you reconnect with parts of yourself that have been stuck in survival mode.

We’ll help you:

  • 1. Identify triggers and inner pressures that fuel anxiety

  • 2. Reframe perfectionism and self-criticism

  • 3. Learn nervous system regulation skills that actually work

  • 4. Build boundaries and self-trust that support long-term balance

You don’t have to keep running on empty. There’s a steadier way to live — one that lets you feel calm, capable, and connected to your life again.


Who We Work With

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Our therapists specialize in anxiety therapy for:

  • High-achieving professionals experiencing burnout

  • Millennials and Gen Z adults navigating life transitions

  • Men and women struggling with performance-based self-worth

  • Individuals balancing cultural or family expectations

  • Clients exploring neurodivergence and identity with compassion

No matter your story, our team meets you where you are — curious, capable, and ready to heal at your own pace.

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Ready to Feel Like Yourself Again?

You don’t have to figure it out alone.

Schedule a free 15-minute consultation to connect with one of our licensed anxiety therapists and see if we’re the right fit.


Anxiety Therapy FAQs

  • Our sessions blend talk therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and mindfulness-based tools. You’ll gain practical strategies for calm in your day-to-day life — while understanding and healing the deeper roots of your anxiety.

  • Yes. Research shows virtual therapy is just as effective as in-person sessions for anxiety treatment. Our therapists create a supportive, personalized online space that feels safe and connected — no commute required.

  • Not at all. Many of our clients haven’t been formally diagnosed — they just know that anxiety, stress, or overthinking are affecting their lives. You can start therapy at any time, whether or not you’ve seen a psychiatrist or taken medication.

  • It depends on your goals and what’s happening in your life. Some clients come for a few months to learn tools for stress management; others stay longer to work through deeper patterns. We’ll collaborate on what feels right for you.

  • That’s completely normal. Many of our clients felt anxious about therapy at first. We’ll take things at your pace, explain the process clearly, and make sure you always feel respected and supported.

Testimonials

  • “I’ve tried a few different therapists over the years, Amanda has been the most empathetic, and caring one to date. She always focuses on the important topics, and helps me talk through my trauma without being triggered”.

    -Danielle F, Brooklyn, NY

  • “Constant anxiety had become a daily struggle until I began working with Amanda. She provided me with practical tools and strategies to manage my symptoms and cope more effectively. Amanda didn’t just help me; she changed my life.”

    -Paul A, Long Island, NY

  • “I was so swamped with stress from work and my relationship, it was a log. Amanda was amazing at helping me untangle everything in my brain, and I felt so safe talking to her. Because of her, I could finally deal with the things that were messing with my life.”

    -Jonni F, Poughkeepsie, NY

  • “Working with Amanda Phillips has been life-changing. Her compassion, insight, and patience are apparent in every session. After years of working together, I can honestly say that Amanda is the best therapist I have ever had. She helps me feel in control of my neurodivergence, helps me find kindness for myself when I’m struggling, and prepares me with tools to succeed outside of our sessions. I cannot recommend Amanda Phillips highly enough—her practice has helped me build compassion for myself and find joy in doing the work of personal growth.”

    -Christopher J. Manhattan, NY

  • “Amanda has been so helpful in my life ever since I started seeing her. Before her, I was new to therapy and had tried out a few different people. She made me feel so at ease, safe, and comfortable. It felt like the right fit and it was the best decision. I highly recommend her to anyone who is new to therapy, unsure where to start, or looking for someone that truly gets you. She’s amazing.”

    -Giannis W, Manhattan, NY

  • “As a guy new to therapy, I was hesitant, but Amanda made me feel completely comfortable from the start. She really listened and helped me feel seen. Working with her has been an amazing experience.”

    -Michael T, Brooklyn, NY

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  • “It was my very first appointment EVER. Currently I am happy with her, she has been extremely understanding to my situation and is allowing me a safe space to discuss the trial and tribulations that is thrown at us in life.”

    -Miri S, Poughkeepsie, NY

  • “I was struggling with the emotional rollercoaster of fertility treatments and IVF, feeling anxious and uncertain. Amanda truly understood what I was going through. She helped me feel at ease and provided the support I desperately needed during this difficult journey.”

    -Alex G, Westchester, NY

  • “Seriously, working with Amanda was a game-changer. I finally felt like someone got what I was going through with my fertility stuff, and she was so supportive.

    -Jennifer H, Long Island, NY